How To Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Come Back Without Begging

Even if you’re desperate, making your ex-girlfriend come back by begging is neither manly nor attractive. So what else can you do? Is it a case of being damned if you do and damned if you don’t? Not really.

Unless you did something wrong and didn’t apologize for it, apologize first. IF you had an affair, be careful not to apologize too quickly. Give your ex girlfriend some time to calm down and then try to initiate contact again. If they still don’t want you back, it’s time to start No Contact.

The only way to get your girlfriend back at this point is to give them space and have patience. If she wants to be friends, be careful if you still have deep feelings. Do you really want to be her friend or her boyfriend?

Does giving a gift count as begging?

In a way, yes, she knows you want her back and using a gift as a way of ‘buying’ her back. It might work for some, but it probably won’t last.

Should you write her a letter?

I don’t feel this is really necessary unless you have unresolved feelings you need to get out. Although I still feel in that regard, you should write your feelings down but NOT send it. Often a letter will not do much good, sometimes even making things worse.

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How To Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Come Back Without Begging

Even if you’re desperate, making your ex-girlfriend come back by begging is neither manly nor attractive. So what else can you do? Is it a case of being damned if you do and damned if you don’t? Not really.

Unless you did something wrong and didn’t apologize for it, apologize first. IF you had an affair, be careful not to apologize too quickly. Give your ex girlfriend some time to calm down and then try to initiate contact again. If they still don’t want you back, it’s time to start No Contact.

The only way to get your girlfriend back at this point is to give them space and have patience. If she wants to be friends, be careful if you still have deep feelings. Do you really want to be her friend or her boyfriend?

Does giving a gift count as begging?

In a way, yes, she knows you want her back and using a gift as a way of ‘buying’ her back. It might work for some, but it probably won’t last.

Should you write her a letter?

I don’t feel this is really necessary unless you have unresolved feelings you need to get out. Although I still feel in that regard, you should write your feelings down but NOT send it. Often a letter will not do much good, sometimes even making things worse.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When There's Someone Else

So sadly your girlfriend has dumped you and suddenly they’ve got their arms around a new guy. Who is this guy and how could your ex just throw your relationship away like that?

The first thing you must realize is no amount of cry or begging is going to make her dump the new guy and come back to you. Remember women are attracted to strong and confident men. Crying and begging only tells her you’re the opposite of that.

So what does strong, confident men do if they see their ex with another guy? You act mature and treat it as if you could CARE LESS. Because obviously you’re confident so why should it bother you if your ex decided to go for someone less inferior and oh yes they ARE inferior.

You need to make your girl see that you are clearly the better choice between the two of you so you better man up and show it to her.

Start implementing no contact and if she calls, politely but firmly let her know when she’s figured out exactly what she wants from you to then give you a call.

For more tips head over to: How to Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back