Friday, August 22, 2008

How To Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Come Back Without Begging

Even if you’re desperate, making your ex-girlfriend come back by begging is neither manly nor attractive. So what else can you do? Is it a case of being damned if you do and damned if you don’t? Not really.

Unless you did something wrong and didn’t apologize for it, apologize first. IF you had an affair, be careful not to apologize too quickly. Give your ex girlfriend some time to calm down and then try to initiate contact again. If they still don’t want you back, it’s time to start No Contact.

The only way to get your girlfriend back at this point is to give them space and have patience. If she wants to be friends, be careful if you still have deep feelings. Do you really want to be her friend or her boyfriend?

Does giving a gift count as begging?

In a way, yes, she knows you want her back and using a gift as a way of ‘buying’ her back. It might work for some, but it probably won’t last.

Should you write her a letter?

I don’t feel this is really necessary unless you have unresolved feelings you need to get out. Although I still feel in that regard, you should write your feelings down but NOT send it. Often a letter will not do much good, sometimes even making things worse.

11 comments:

JS (Magic of making up) said...

The post looks amazing and thank you for the tips.Analyze the relationship to figure out what went wrong, and fix the problems that drove her away.
Changing yourself is the hardest thing in the world to do, but she's certainly not going to change her needs or expectations of what she gets out of a relationship.
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Magic Of Making Up

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Get Your Ex Back said...

The tips and advices to get your ex back are very good but in my opinion the first you should do is to think that your relationship is worth saving.

MadeiraViews said...

Hi,

These are true words and true sentiments. Expressed with feeling and conviction.

I wish I had the benefit of your foresight when I was in the mid-turmoil. I was trying various ploys to get my ex back. I should have realised that beauty comes from inner thoughts, not from false actions.

Thanks for the insight,
Alex
xx

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